Ownness is about inclusion.
Myness is not about inclusion.
In ownness there is space
In myness there is no space
In ownness the other person feels strengthened.
In myness the other person does not feel strengthened.
Ownness is to see the other person as myself.
Not as complementary, not as my friend, but as me.
Me as different from my.
It is identity.
Love is the practice of ownness, not myness.
The emotion is seeing everything as same. Not different.
It gently divinizes one’s emotions. The outcome of that will be Samadarshitva. Not humility, not pride. No hierarchies. Sameness.
It is a gentle flow to anyone who is in front.
Then one is able to live life intelligently.
